For awhile, I was NOT AN EMPOWERED PEOPLE PLEASER.
I ran from being myself like it was a burning building, shielding my eyes from the self-doubt I felt.
Eventually, I had to stop running… and I realized that I CAN have love, and be me.
I had to develop TRUE AWARENESS, TRUE ACCEPTANCE AND TRUE CONNECTION in order to LEARN HOW TO HAVE RELATIONSHIPS WHERE I FELT LOVED AND NOT HAVE TO BE SOMEONE I’M NOT.
That’s when I created my community for empowering people pleasers: POW!
Hi, I’m Eleanor…
I am an international healer and relationship empowerment coach who loves to help you feel loved for being yourself and empower all your relationships--including the one with yourself.
Truth Bombs that Changed My Life
I had to LEARN AND ACCEPT that as a human being I encompass ALL facets of the GOOD and the BAD and the IN BETWEEN.
Growing up I was taught that anger was bad and speaking up for yourself was worse. To be a good girl, I kept the anger inside until it morphed into rage, all the while nodding in agreement with those around me. Cue the hellish People Pleaser existence of being misunderstood and feeling powerless to change your life (not to mention having chronic skin issues and IBS and anxiety).
I can RELAX AND BE MYSELF even if I’m a work in progress
For years I wanted to be a healer, write books, and speak on stages making a worldwide impact. I squashed my impulses because I felt like a fraud and instead kept myself small in every area of my life. I wasted years not letting myself go after my dreams because it wasn’t “realistic”. On the other hand I would throw myself into projects, ideas or dreams in a way that burnt me out and left me feeling overwhelmed. I was literally standing on my head doing everything people had said would “work” and nothing changed. I was on a merri-go-round, circling endlessly, and nothing was any better. Cue the part burnt out, part overwhelmed hermit, living in a cave nursing her wounds and forgotten dreams.
I had to stop pretending I was PERFECT
For years I was unable to be myself and so I felt isolated, lonely and misunderstood. There is nothing worse than feeling like you have to show up as someone you aren’t in order to be liked, but knowing that people like you for who you’re pretending to be. Cue the ultra disconnected existence of being everything to everyone (except yourself).
My healing process took me from being stuck in years of dysfunctional relationships followed by long periods of isolation (10 years was one particular stretch), chronic health issues such as digestive imbalances, acne and debilitating anxiety and panic attacks
Ready to marry my unicorn in December 2020 because #lovewins (he's that amazing) who loves me for who I am and I feel cherished,
Resolved my anxiety--no more panic attacks!
Healthy relationship with my body and clear skin
Doing what I love as a Healer and Coach with clients all around the world
Now that I embrace these truth bombs I live as my True Self, feel loved and help you become an Empowered People Pleaser
Remember: You are home.
The greatest healing happens in community, so join me. I can’t wait to get to know YOU!