How do you deal with being single: a) when you don’t want to be b) COVID makes everything weird c) this was supposed to be your year?
Regardless of the fact that plenty of people are in the same boat as you, Hallmark Cards, Lindt Chocolate and De Beers Diamonds want you to feel like you’re the only alien who hasn’t found someone to love yet.Before we continue, I want you to know a few things.
First of all, this post is not meant to solve all your problems (or any of them actually).
And this post may not change your life (I am OPEN to someone contacting me after reading this and being like, “omg, your post changed my life!”)
What my intention is with this post is to make you laugh and lighten the heaviness in your heart for a few minutes, like the Cat Lawyer video did: “I’m on live. I’m not a cat.” (seriously, if you haven’t seen the video I’m talking about, after you read this post, go watch it)
Here are my two cents on what it's like to be single when you don’t want to be, during Valentine's month: It sucks.
Things to be aware of as you read further:
Ok let’s get to the good stuff. How to deal ...
Operation Survive Valentine’s Day/Month + Toolkit
Remember that no matter what you decide to do today and for the month of February, just love yourself. Kidding! You should've seen your face! That was a good one.
But seriously, I see you and I love you. Take this post with a grain of salt. I don't believe that every single person is destined to be miserable or that if you are single you are automatically unhappy. BUT, if you are sad about being single I believe in 100% embracing it!!
Looking for more distractions or reasons to cry and laugh and cry again? Take my quiz on my website: What is your Disney Princess Love Attraction Archetype?
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